These three simple things we surrendered at primary school when they taught us how to guard against

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These three simple things we surrendered at primary school when they taught us how to guard against traffic. They told us to stop at a sign to look around if they come cars and listened to other cars. If you do not obey these simple rules, you will put your life in danger. Can crash a car. If you do not have time to do those three things jaspis and not look around directly cross the street, take a huge risk and put yourself in danger. What would happen if we applied the same principles in dealing jaspis with people? If you do not have time to stop, look around and listen, will harm your life. Someone might emotionally destroy us. Many of us have been able to avoid interpersonal conflicts if they were separated jaspis from one moment to stop, look to the face and the body language of someone and listen to what he says and how he says, and to consider the question: "This man what makes me feel - good or bad? "If we learn to stop to look and listen before getting into any relationship in your personal jaspis or professional life, I would not dump at night, sorry about one thing or another jaspis wrong decision. following exercise is the initial step. might feel a little jaspis uncomfortable the first few times you do it, but after a while you will become like second nature and you will be able to quickly identify jaspis the people in any situation. Exercise jaspis 1. Musical chairs main process is reduced to simpler things, and when you study it will be easier to understand. Remember jaspis when you were little and you played musical chairs? They walked among these are small chairs while listening to a familiar tune, and probably you've sung. Suddenly the music stops and says to a "frozen" in place. Surely you come to die of pleasure if you accidentally put your body in front of a chair. Either your heart fading at the beginning of one of the many disappointments jaspis that will appear in your life. Surely you cried when you noticed that you are not in front of a chair. already logged out. Moment of freezing allows you to decide whether you are located behind the chair, which means that the game will continue and will not expel you. The same happens in life. have to stop immediately, and your mind will freeze for a few seconds when you are with another person, so you really can see who he really is, not disqualify you. Think of the analogy of musical chairs whenever you meet a man. Not so fast! Take time to find out whether figuratively no chair behind you - whether you're doubting emotionally strong person or someone who will pull the rug under your feet. Take time to give yourself account what exactly is this man. Here are the successive steps. Silently say, "Freeze!" Sometimes you make something simple, it will enable you to continue to the next step so that you can finish the task that stands before you. Breath jaspis through your mouth for two seconds. hold for two seconds. When you exhale, discard all prejudices and preconceptions of the mind of this man, so that you can clearly swallow all the information visually and hearing will collect. Rights Watch in the face, while still breathe through your nose for two seconds. hold it two seconds, then exhale through your mouth when you start the process of visual information. During the time in which man speaks to you, continue to breathe in the same way until you gasp for breath. When inhaling through the nose for three seconds, and look how that person behaves, what is its stand, body, hands and face. As you exhale through your mouth, listen carefully to what he is speaking, listening, and in his tone. Now again breath through the mouth and this time consider the feelings evoked in you the man - good or bad you feel around him. Exercise 2. Observer This is a great exercise that you can apply the next time you're at a gathering and do not know many of the attendees. First relax your body. Imagine you compose your opinion about the characters in the film. This will shake off the embarrassment and sharpen the perception of emotions. This will help to clarify my thinking, so scratch that you can think of anything you feel. Look around impartially. Take a look around - the furniture, the carpet, the walls. Then look at the people in the room. Do not hurry, do not bother. Look at them one by one, watch how they move, how talk to each other. Pay special attention to what happens to your body in the sense of what you feel a physical reaction. What happens to the frequency in